SOURCE: Chuck Swindoll
“There’s no getting around it, pain and suffering are inevitable.
Our parents did not escape it, you and I will not escape it, and neither will our children.
According to Philippians 1:29, suffering is here to stay:
For to you it has been granted for Christ’s sake, not only to believe in Him, but also to suffer for His sake.
“There are some today who say, ‘All suffering is wrong. All who suffer are out of the will of God. If you suffer, you are in sin. And since you are in sin, if you will deal correctly and sufficiently with your sin, your suffering will go away.’
That is simply not the truth.
Scripture does not support such teaching. To be sure, all suffering is rooted in the fact that sin has entered the human race; however, not only has it been granted that we believe in Christ, but it has also been planned that we suffer.”
What Works? What Doesn’t?
When we suffer, our problem solving skills seem to escape us like an evaporating mist on a spring-fed lake. We know the solution lies within the cleansing waters of Christ being poured into us from the depths of our souls.
But the surface is turbulent. We struggle to overcome, and we find ourselves fighting to take our next breath. While everyone is different, a few strategies help us to respond well in times of trial, and some simply leave us gasping for air.
What works …
- An honest assessment of the trials and suffering in your life
- Absolute trust in God’s sovereignty
- Patience, perseverance, and persistence in the face of great difficulty
- Confidence in God’s ultimate plan for your life
What doesn’t work …
- Quick fixes with one-size-fits-all solutions
- Rejecting people who genuinely have our best interests at heart
- Becoming angry with God
Insight for Living. (2007). Counseling Insights: A Biblical Perspective on Caring for People (565). Plano, TX: Insight for Living.